depth over surface. meaning over chaos.

Good Mind

Psychotherapy for young adults
becoming more fully themselves.

Based in Hawai'i  ·  Telehealth in CA & HI

Dr. Katherine Goodman

I'm Katherine Goodman,
a licensed clinical psychologist.

Underneath that, I'm a curious observer of the human mind.

I've always been fascinated by the way seemingly unrelated pieces of a person's life eventually reveal themselves to be deeply connected. A dream. A recurring relationship. An unexpected emotional reaction. A memory that resurfaces years later. What first appears random often begins to tell a story.

To me, therapy is about becoming deeply acquainted with yourself. My hope is that, over time, your inner world becomes as familiar to you as the back of your hand. I believe there's something profoundly freeing about understanding the inner workings of your own mind. When the pieces begin to fit together, you stop wondering, “Why am I like this?” or “Is something wrong with me?” You begin to trust yourself.

From that place, life feels different. You become more deeply connected to the people around you, more resilient in the face of life's inevitable uncertainty, and more confident that, whatever comes your way, you'll be able to find your footing again.

Dr. Katherine Goodman, PhD View Curriculum Vitae  →
Maybe this is you.

You're at a party, and everyone is talking about the usual things. What show they're watching, who's dating who, the latest thing they saw on TikTok.

And you're trying to act normal.

But for some reason, all you can think about is: why am I here? Not just at this party, but like… here. In this life. In this body. In this version of myself. Having this conversation. Pretending this feels casual.

And maybe you know that if you suddenly turned the conversation toward the really intense, existential thing happening in your mind, it might absolutely kill the vibe, so you don't.

But inside, your mind is doing something else entirely.

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Maybe you've always felt like your thoughts are a little too weird for the room. Like other people somehow got the instruction manual for being a person, and you were absent that day.

Maybe you wonder if anyone else is thinking this much or that life would be simpler if you thought less.

Maybe you don't really know who you are. Or maybe you do, but it changes constantly. Sometimes you like yourself. Sometimes you hate yourself. Sometimes you feel weirdly superior, then immediately hate that about yourself. Sometimes you think you see everything clearly. Other times, you question everything.

Maybe you feel creative, but something is blocked. Or you wonder if you're actually creative at all, or if you just like the idea of being creative.

Maybe you talk to your friends, and they love you, but they either fully support you or don't totally know what to do with the depth of what you're saying. And sometimes you don't need someone to just agree with you.

You need someone to sit with you and notice what you might not be able to see because you're too close to it.

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A Depth-Oriented Approach

Odds are, you're probably already smart enough to know what you should be doing:

“I should probably stop texting them back.”
“I know I should get more sleep.”
“I should stop overthinking what I said at 2 a.m.”
“I know I should be kinder to myself.”

The more interesting question is: why is it so hard?

That's where our work begins.

My approach is psychodynamic, which means we're much more interested in understanding why than rushing to decide what to do. We'll follow whatever feels worth paying attention to. A dream you had the night before. The feeling you notice sitting across from me. The thought you almost decided not to say out loud.

Those moments are rarely random.

We'll probably talk about your childhood, but not because we're trying to stay in the past. We're interested in understanding how your past continues to shape your present through your relationships, the ways you protect yourself, and the patterns that keep showing up, often without you realizing it.

Our therapy can feel a little like wandering through the streets of an old city. At first, it's hard to see how everything connects. My job is to hold the map while it's slowly revealed, one conversation at a time. Eventually, the streets become familiar, and what once felt confusing begins to make sense.

unfiltered thoughts, old fears, inexplicable feelings, shadow material
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Services

Different seasons call for different support.
Below are the ways we can work together.
If you don't see exactly what you're looking for, reach out.

01

Individual
Therapy

Weekly, 50-minute psychotherapy sessions via secure telehealth for residents of Hawai'i and California.

02

Dyadic
Therapy

Therapy for two people navigating a relationship together. Available for parent/child, siblings, couples, and other important relationships.

03

Groups &
Workshops

Young adult therapy groups, community workshops, and guest speaking on topics related to mental health, relationships, identity, and personal growth.

04

Outside
Hawai'i &
California?

Reach out and we can discuss what options may be available depending on your location and what you're looking for.

Let's talk.

Finding the right therapist matters. If you're wondering what it might feel like to work together, the best place to start is a complimentary 15-minute consultation.

We'll talk about what you're looking for, answer any questions you have, and decide whether we're a good fit.

Dr. Katherine Goodman
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Request a Free Consultation

I typically respond within 1–2 business days.

Not sure what to write? A sentence or two is enough. You don't need to explain everything perfectly.

If you live outside Hawai'i or California, you're still welcome to reach out. Depending on your location and what you're looking for, we can discuss what options may be available.

Questions You Might Have

A few practical details, before we begin.

What kind of therapy do you offer?

My approach is psychodynamic and depth-oriented. That means we're interested in the pattern underneath the symptom.

We might talk about anxiety, relationships, dreams, childhood, family dynamics, grief, identity, creativity, attachment, self-esteem, or the things you almost didn't say out loud. The goal is not just to manage symptoms, but to understand yourself more deeply and ultimately live a more full life.

Are you a therapist or a psychologist?

Both words may apply in everyday language, but my formal credential is licensed clinical psychologist. I have a PhD and am licensed to provide psychotherapy.

A psychologist has doctoral-level training in assessment, diagnosis, research, and psychotherapy. If you're specifically looking for therapy with a doctoral-level clinician, "licensed clinical psychologist" or "psychologist" is the term you're looking for.

Where do you offer therapy?

I offer telehealth psychotherapy for clients located in Hawaiʻi and California.

If you live outside Hawaiʻi or California, you're still welcome to reach out. Depending on your location and what you're looking for, we can discuss what options may be available.

Do you work with teens?

Yes. I work with older teens who are navigating anxiety, overthinking, school stress, family dynamics, friendships, relationships, self-esteem, and the push and pull of simultaneously wanting to grow up quickly while also clinging to the comforts of childhood.

Can parents reach out for their teen?

Yes. Parents are welcome to reach out if they are looking for therapy for their teen.

We can talk briefly about what's been going on, what kind of support may be helpful, and whether I might be a good fit. For therapy to work, it's important that your teen feels comfortable, respected, and not forced into a version of therapy that feels like it belongs only to the parent.

Do you work with people in their 20s?

Yes. A lot of my work is with people in their 20s who feel self-aware but still stuck.

Maybe you're navigating relationships, breakups, dating patterns, family expectations, anxiety, creativity blocks, career uncertainty, loneliness, identity questions, or the feeling that everyone else got the instruction manual for adulthood and you somehow missed it.

Therapy can help you understand the patterns underneath what keeps repeating — in your relationships, your family, your work, your creativity, and the way you relate to yourself.

Do you offer therapy for college students?

Yes. I work with college students navigating anxiety, loneliness, identity questions, academic pressure, family expectations, friendships, dating, breakups, and the feeling of being in-between who they were and who they're becoming.

Do you work with adults in their 30s?

Yes. I work with adults in their 30s who are in a season of re-evaluating their lives, relationships, work, family patterns, identity, or sense of self.

Sometimes your 30s bring a quieter kind of crisis: the life you built technically works, but something about it no longer feels fully true. Therapy can be a place to slow down, listen more honestly, and understand what is asking to change.

Do you work with high-achieving teens and young adults?

Yes. I often work with people who look like they're doing well from the outside but feel overwhelmed, disconnected, anxious, insecure, or unsure of who they actually are underneath all the performing.

Therapy can be a place to talk about the parts of yourself that don't fit neatly into the "I'm fine" version other people may see.

What do people usually come to you for?

People often come to me for anxiety, overthinking, relationship patterns, family dynamics, identity questions, grief, perfectionism, self-esteem, creativity blocks, life transitions, and the feeling of being strangely disconnected from themselves or their own life.

Some people may look like they have it figured out on the outside, but inside they still feel messy.

Do you offer therapy for anxiety and overthinking?

Yes. I work with teens, people in their 20s, and adults in their 30s who struggle with anxiety, overthinking, self-doubt, spiraling thoughts, and the feeling that their mind never fully turns off.

In therapy, we're not only interested in calming the anxiety in the moment. We're also curious about what the anxiety is organized around: relationships, family dynamics, identity, perfectionism, shame, uncertainty, or old patterns that keep returning in new forms.

Do you work with relationship patterns and dating anxiety?

Yes. Many people come to therapy because they notice the same emotional patterns showing up in dating, friendships, family, or romantic relationships.

Maybe you get attached quickly, pull away when things feel too close, overthink every text, choose unavailable people, feel anxious when someone likes you, or lose yourself in relationships. Psychodynamic therapy can help you understand why certain dynamics feel so familiar, even when they hurt.

Is therapy helpful if I'm not in crisis?

Yes. You don't have to be in crisis to start therapy.

Some people come because they're anxious or grieving. Others come because they finally have the capacity to face truths that have been trying to get their attention for years. Therapy can be useful when you want to understand yourself more deeply, even if your life technically looks okay.

What if I've tried therapy before and it felt too surface-level?

That's a common reason people look for psychodynamic therapy or depth-oriented therapy.

Some therapy focuses mainly on coping skills, scripts, or symptom management. Those things can be helpful, but they may not be enough if you're wanting to understand the deeper patterns underneath your anxiety, relationships, self-esteem, identity, or emotional life.

Do people need to know they want psychodynamic therapy?

No. Most people do not come in saying, "I want psychodynamic therapy."

More often, they say something like:

"I keep repeating the same relationship pattern."
"I overthink everything."
"I know what I should do, but I can't seem to do it."
"I feel like I don't really know who I am."
"I've tried coping skills, but I want to understand why I'm like this."

Psychodynamic therapy is for people who want to go beneath the surface and understand the deeper emotional patterns shaping their lives.

What's the difference between psychodynamic therapy and CBT?

CBT often focuses on identifying thoughts and behaviors and learning tools to shift them. Psychodynamic therapy is more focused on understanding the deeper emotional patterns, relationships, defenses, and unconscious meanings underneath what keeps repeating.

Both can be useful. My work is more depth-oriented, which means we move slowly and our work is typically long-term.

Do you have an option for in-person therapy?

Yes. If you're located in Hawaiʻi, in-person therapy may be available on Oʻahu.

For clients in California, I primarily offer telehealth, but I occasionally see clients in person in Los Angeles when I'm there. If in-person sessions are important to you, you're welcome to ask about availability when you reach out.

How much does therapy cost?

We can talk about fees during the consultation call. I offer a limited number of sliding scale spots when available, and I can provide superbills for clients who would like to submit to insurance for possible out-of-network reimbursement.

How do we start?

The best place to begin is a complimentary 15-minute consultation.

We'll talk briefly about what you're looking for, answer any questions you have, and get a sense of whether working together feels like a good fit.